Oh, dear. Well, I really do want this blog to be a collection of perspectives from my generation, but I’m bubbling with thoughts just now, so I’ll add some more of my own postings, hoping others will join me here soon.
OK, so I just read this great trail of 26 comments on a particular blogpost by Wordbones. One person commented thusly,
Columbia is very vibrant and much, much more than a suburb. Columbia has plenty to do, indoors and out, year round, including music, theatre, art, sports, dining, exercise, movies, bars, parks, trails, lakes, nature, clubs, shopping, libraries, activities of faith, festivals, learning, and community service. The list goes on and on.
For those claiming, like folks too lazy to see what’s to do “goshhh, there’s aaaabsolutely nothing to dooo”, that vibrancy doesn’t exist, give me a break. Maybe CA needs to, if one doesn’t already exist, publish a map just for the something-to-do-challenged.
Plenty of folks moved here accepting the planned balance between urban and open space. That some now want it to become more like a dense city shouldn’t make it so.
Guilty I most certainly was at the age of 13, whining, daily, I’m sure, that “There’s aaaabsolutely nothing to dooo.” But, see, I’m not 13 anymore, I’m no longer a Mall-rat, and I’m neither dependent on my parents for a ride nor on the Colum-Bus for its slow and winding ride to a destination to which I probably could have walked just as quickly. See, I’m not looking to fill up my calendar with social events. Nor am I in dire need of enriching my intellectual, cultural or physical self. I can take care of those things, as an adult. And, I do. In and around Columbia. I’m really quite fine in such realms.
There is, I agree fully with the commenter here, much to do in Columbia. Tons, actually. Columbia is, after all, an amenity-rich, activity-filled environment. I’ve chosen to live here as an adult, many times over. I’ve purchased a home here. I’ve built my business here. I’ve spent hundreds of hours of my time in the last 35 years being an active citizen, volunteer and all-around community builder. I love this town.
And I can’t stand that there’s “aaaabsolutely no place to goooooooooo.”
Of course, I can GO to the lake, or along one of the paths, for a walk, and I do, sometimes. Of course, I can go to cultural activities, and I do, sometimes. I can go to restaurants, theaters, movies, and I do, sometimes. But there is “aaaabsolutely no place to gooooooooo.” There is no one place that concurrently offers high pedestrian activity, busy business people going to and from meetings, strolling shoppers popping in and out of stores, or moms giggling with their little kids playing in the grass. There is no place in Columbia where I can — when I simply want (need) to, in the spur of the moment — plug into the human pulse of my community.
I CAN go out. I can be AT events where others are as well. But going out into a stream of people and connecting into a good vibe of people are wildly different phenomenon. (For those who don’t know me, — as I assume a good 89,012 of the 90,000 or so residents here don’t — I am hardly one that could be called a wall flower. (Ref. American City Girls, only as a more recent testament.) I am speaking here of A Place-Area-Section that has a vibe that holds its own, rather than scheduled events such as performances, classes and such.
I find that this “Density is bad / Leave Columbia as it is” attitude falls short, logically, for me. I see this view as both an inaccurate fear of what density means and an unwillingness to recognize the specific and unique value well-designed density provides. I, for one, am standing FOR a specific, planned, focused area in Columbia that has intentional, well-designed density because such density and planning creates a specific effect: an effect that I want to see manifest in my hometown.
As I see it, the discussion of density here is not about infill as much as it about creating a center of gravity for activity. It has to do with having A PLACE where people go when they want to “plug in.” Perhaps they “plug in” just by sitting by themselves and sipping a cup of coffee and reading or book, or fidgeting with their Blackberry. But there is “a place” … a zone … an area … a downtown. Even if that “downtown” ends up being some place other than “downtown.” What I’m wanting is a place that has a pulse.
In closing, says our commenter on Wordbones’ blog,
It would be very interesting to see a referendum on the matter of increased density. When’s the next CA election? They could certainly throw such a question on the ballot. That would certainly put to rest any false claims about which opinion reflects the majority.
Yes, my dear, it would, indeed.
Perspective by Jessie, who does, as a matter of fact, do things.
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Follow up: A conversation on another blog about Columbia and destinations. Check out the comments, too.
6 Comments
February 14, 2007 at 4:41 am
Please keep this blog going! Young people – its your town – its your future!
February 14, 2007 at 4:38 pm
I think you’ve hit on something here. At the discussion Monday, several people brought up the idea of destinations, but this means different things to different people. Yes, there are destinations, places where there is energy and people about, but as you say, these are often scheduled and without the spontaneous energy that I picture when thinking of a “destination” (Included in this group would be things like Merriweather, movies, and lakefront activities).
My definition of a destination is a place with built in energy and a litany of things to do (both planned and unplanned).
Close to home, the Inner Harbor is a destination, with lots of scheduled and spontaneous things to do and almost always a crowd. Further away, places like the Pearl Street Mall in Boulder or the French Quarter in New Orleans.
February 14, 2007 at 4:54 pm
I am of the “there’s nothing to do” opinion. First, since I don’t live in Columbia anymore, my husband and I often drive to Columbia on weekend evenings for dinner. Which is fine. Then- after dinner, we either sit in the restaurant asking “now what” or we drive around for a little bit before finally deciding to go home. We’d love something to “do” other than sit at Border’s (which we love, but 2x a week, every week, gets old) or make a trip to Home Depot (quite the happening place on a Saturday night).
We aren’t up for clubbing or any of that junk, so we don’t go to Bmore or DC. We like live music and have finally found a GREAT band that we try to catch at least once a month, especially when they perform at a non-smoking bar. But the other 3 weekends follow the pattern above. The same question (”what can we do in Columbia”) followed by the same answer (”nothing, let’s just go home.”)
February 14, 2007 at 10:49 pm
While there are movie theaters, there is nothing DISTINCTIVE to do in Columbia. Columbia is chosen out of convenience and proximity to REAL destinations.
Anyone who mentions Columbia activities should examine the activities in any other generic suburb. They are the same. Yes, you can go to the movies, the mall, a bar, Borders, Starbucks. How is that any different than any other suburb?
The most bustling place in Columbia that I have seen is that little patch of pavement outside the LL Bean. And you have to drive there. Pretty sad.
Arlington and Montgomery County have learned how to create destinations. All of their newer developments have a hook. A town square, an open space, etc.
February 16, 2007 at 5:49 pm
Wish I wasn’t so old so that I could join your gathering.
I agree with you about the lack of a bustling, vibrant place in Columbia. Yes, I take advantage of so many of the cultural events (plays, concerts, festivals, etc.), but there isn’t a place to go at a moment’s notice. We got out of dinner at Tomato Palace at 9:00 on Sat. night, and Columbia was totally tucked in for the night.
February 16, 2007 at 10:25 pm
Oh, Young at Heart, you are most welcome to join our conversation/gathering on Sunday at Trapeze.
I started this blog with the intent to magnetize my generation to a “social technology” focal point. To give a public voice to a lot of private sentiments I was hearing only in person. And I’ll do my best to hold that focus.
But by no means are our events exclusive. Please bring your energetic, Young at Heart self to the salon, should you wish. And, if we’d be so lucky, and you could bring a local 13er as well, all the better.
Thanks for your contribution, and for weighing in.