July 11, 2009

Obituary.

It was just a simple picture of a sequined glove. But it was on the obituary page of The Economist, the magazine I was leisurely reading this morning while sipping coffee and relaxing in my fav REI lounger.

michael jackson - sequin gloveNow, I know Michael Jackson is dead. Duh. It’s not his death that shocked me. It’s just that I’ve been reading* The Economist for some time now, and the obituary page usually highlights some obscure foreign politician, world leader or cultural icon from an era with little resonance to me.

But the glove. Well, let’s just say that sunk in to me in a way I hadn’t expected. Rest in peace, Michael. Rest in peace.

* Feel free to interpret the verb “reading” here as “scanning with interest.” :-)

July 11, 2009

Bad-ass wild raspberry smoothie

Our household was gifted with gobs of wild raspberries. Which we promptly froze for smoothies. This afternoon was my first attempt at using them, so I went light and mild for trial one.

  • Wild raspberry and tea smoothie
  • 1.5 c frozen wild raspberries
  • 1 c of sun tea (black tea and fresh mint)
  • 1 T of honey
Wild raspberries

Wild raspberries

The result was a refreshing drink, but not much of a smoothie, per se. The wild raspberries just aren’t richly pulpy. Though they are richly seedy.  So, knowing the fruit didn’t add too much flavor or pulp, I headed on to make smoothie #2.

Bad-ass wild raspberry smoothie

  • 1.5 c frozen wild raspwberries
  • 2 oranges, juiced
  • 1/2 c  yogurt, plain
  • 1 T cocoa nibs (NIBS — as in bits o beans)
  • Dash of cinnamon
  • Dash of vanilla

Vitamix, natch. On high, high, high to pulverize the many seeds in the raspberries. OMG. This is one of the wilder and better smoothies I’ve made … and I’ve made a lot of smoothies. This is one bad-ass smoothie! The sour flavor from the berries, orange juice and yogurt are balanced by the sweetness of the honey and a bit from the berries. The chocolate/cocoa adds some bitterness and depth. The vanilla and cinnamon connect the flavors and add some gentle sophistication to the drink.

Woo. Woo. I’m bad. I’m bad, I’m really, really bad.

July 8, 2009

Thrill the World

michael-jackson-thrillerThrill the World. From my friend, Brooke:

On Friday, July 17 at 7:30pm, Joe’s Movement Emporium in Mt. Rainier is holding its inaugural dance class to teach anyone 8 and older the iconic Michael Jackson “Thriller” Dance!

This class is FREE!  ALL AGES ARE WELCOME.  This class is approximately 2 hours long and should be a blast. Please RSVP to here.

Joe’s will be teaching as many students the “Thriller” dance as possible this summer in preparation for the annual worldwide simultaneous dance of Michael Jackson’s “Thriller”, which will be held on Sat. Oct. 24, 2009, 8:30pm ET.  All official Thrill the World events will be included in the numbers for setting and breaking World Records.

Please send this to all the dance and Michael Jackson fans out there!

Thank you,

Brooke Kidd
“Zombie Brooke”
Joe’s Movement Emporium
Mount Rainier, MD 20712

Not to be missed: a “community” rendition of Thriller.

July 8, 2009

Strawberry Strawberry & Cashew Smoothie

raw-smoothie-recipes-strawberryBreakfast this morning: A strawberry-strawberry-cashew smoothie. Very, very nice. Here’s what I used:

  • 1 c of frozen strawberries (I freeze them after sugaring them and adding citric acid)
  • 1/2 c strawberry kefir
  • 6 unsalted raw cashews, soaked

Whirrrrrr in the Vitamix. Done.

July 6, 2009

Hating the WaPo right now

Looking for the schedule of the Columbia Association’s lakefront movies for 2009, I typed in to Google a very respectable string of words: “columbia association” lakefront, movies, 2009. Lo, and behold, the Washington Post’s info was the #1 choice.

And, so I clicked.

I’m so dumbfounded that I’m beyond anger. I just skipped the Pissed-Off stage and went straight to: You Should Just Die and Be Gone.

Oh, OK, maybe I dipped my toe in the anger pool … but just a bit. No, really, people, check this out. Click here. Scan it. See if you can find useful information presented in a user-friendly way. Maybe, even if your curiosity strikes you: try adding an event to your calendar. HAH!

Back to the drawing board.

July 6, 2009

The *other* generations …

Life and Such had me on a rooftop party in Brooklyn this past weekend. The party was an I’m-going-away-for-two-months-so-I-need-to-have-a-going-away party, which was hosted by a Millennial. Go figure. The host was a student at Pratt, and except for my friend and I, all the attendees were her peers, either at school, or in age range.

One party-going Millennial, with a bit of puffery in his chest, said to me, “It’s so nice to see the other generations represented at this party. So often, I go out, and I just don’t see other generations.”

To which I responded, “That’s because you are a member of a peer-oriented generation, and you and your cohorts tend to clump around your own, and in large numbers. It’s quite natural, actually, that you don’t notice other generations much because you probably don’t  spend much time around them.”

Not sure if he got my point.

But in any case, it kinda cracked me up. I get in a big way that all the generations are shifting roles. I know this, born in ‘63 myself, and an early-wave GenXer, that I’m now in my early years of mid-life. No longer am I “the younger generation” at the rooftop parties. Anyone else feeling this? The shift to a new life phase. It’s interesting. I’m not knocking it: I’m just sometimes knocked askew for a split second by being reminded externally of this new phase of life.

And the beat goes on …

July 2, 2009

It don’t matter if you’re black or white

interracial-couple-black-woman-white-manBut it’s better if you’re both, blended, integrated and/or bi-racial. See, I was contacted by a young gal looking to interview people/families of Columbia. It’s easier if I let her use her words:

Let me explain a bit about our project. We are part of a consortium of schools looking at different groups of Americans emerging as growing populations according to the Census. According to the 2000 Census and projections for 2010, mixed-race people are the fastest-growing demographic. But what this group (and their families) share in common is difficult to define.

This is our series hub, and this is a link to last year’s projects to give you a sense. Your interviews would be a video component to a print story about Columbia and about multiracial families in America, which would be posted on our program’s Web site.

For the Columbia story, we want to speak with multiracial families (or individuals, of any age) about what drew them to Columbia and how they feel that Rouse’s vision for creating a diverse and engaged community has changed over the years. We are also asking each family a few set questions about their experiences as a multiracial family, and how they feel the experience has informed their social and political outlook on issues (if at all). The interview should take about 30 minutes. We would prefer to interview people in their homes if possible. We would be looking to speak to up to 5 families or individuals.

Again, I know this is very personal, and we are glad to answer any questions to set minds at ease. It actually is a very fun project, and we are getting many different answers to our questions!

We will be in Columbia this Monday and Tuesday, but we can accommodate any time you have free in the next couple of weeks.

Thanks so much for your help!
Shauna Miller

News21 Fellow
University of Maryland
(301) 314-2694

(301) 661-6672 (cell)

June 30, 2009

Day 1 of Year 2

Today was my anniversary. I’ve now had a j-o-b for 12 months. 365 days. A whole year. And now, I’m starting my second year there. I like it. I like having a job and being inside a structure. I wrote more about what I like at my six-month mark.

What I find fascinating, thrilling, exciting, frustrating, uplifting, endearing and enticing is the terrain. It’s the terrain of being on the inside. And, I speak no ill of my company or any other when I say this: I like the concept of development inside of contraction. I like the challenge of finding ways to continue to be/d0/have “more” inside an economy that is contracting. Gone are the days for most all American companies where year-after-year of growth was pretty certain. Nope. And yet, inside a contracting economy, who is to say all companies will take the hit evenly? Some may thrive. Excel even. This is what excites me about my job. Those challenges of developing inside an environment where it seems harder than ever.

I like the people inside the company. Our customers. Our partners. The external contacts with whom I work. The global distributors. The local folk. I like walking the halls, seeing people I work with, day after day. Before I even went looking for a job, I wrote a doc called My Ideal Job. And while I knew that exact job probably didn’t exist when I wrote the doc, my sense is that I’m moving toward it each day.

There’s one thing I genuinely don’t like: the air quality of the building where I work. My company execs and various staff, along with the building landlord, have been near-heroic in attempting to solve this problem. But they haven’t been able to, and it just sucks. My lungs hurt somedays. I often feel a physical contraction in my lungs, especially after having been out of the office for a couple days. I want to work out in fresh air, to work anywhere but the office and to have access to air that isn’t the air of the building. We’ll see. Maybe that will come to be more of an option in year two. Fingers crossed.

Thanks again to all the people who’ve been a part of my life at each moment of development. Whether as a client and how I honed so many of my skills learning how to deliver solutions inside of tight budgets, as a colleague, as a friend. In any way, shape or form that I’ve come to stand more solidly on this Earth, thank you. And to my colleagues at my j-o-b, thank you, too. My first year has been quite an experience, and I’m looking forward to Year Two.

June 29, 2009

Cantaloupe Ginger Honey Kefir Smoothie

cantaloupe - by scott bauerThis one got mixed reviews. It’s much lighter in texter than my more-typical fruit-dense smoothies, plus I added flavoring well above and beyond just the fruit. Here’s what I mixed –

  • 1/2 a cantaloupe
  • 10 ice cubes
  • 1 inch of ginger, peeled and diced
  • 1 lemon, juiced
  • 1/2 c vanilla kefir
  • 2 T honey

Vitamix on low, variable, then high. Cantaloupe is so watery, that it makes for a really different base drink than something pulpier, such as blueberries. Knowing it was going to be really watery,  and knowing I didn’t want to add to many fruits to it, I aimed to add more flavor layers. (Oh, cantaloupe, like all melons, is best eaten away from/distanced from eating other foods. At least, that’s what I’ve heard and adhere to mostly.) The ginger and honey added flavor layers. The ginger seemed almost a bit bitter to me; the lemon, sour, of course. Kefir is a little bit sour, but balanced by the vanilla flavor.

Anyway, I liked it. My sis was so-so on it. My dad and my mom both liked it. If I made it again, I’d halve the amount of ginger I used.

June 27, 2009

Pineapple Peach Kefir Smoothie

pineapple peachThe sibs visiting from out of town are quickly adapting to the nightly smoothie routine. Tonight’s concoction: pineapple, peach and kefir. Here’s what I used -

  • 1/3 of a pineapple
  • 2 peaches
  • 1/2 cup of vanilla kefir
  • 5-6 soaked Brazil nuts

Vitamix, first on low and variable. Then high-speed, especially with the Brazil nuts; needed to pulverize them. The pineapple and peaches by themselves were nice and tasty, but too light. Too airy. Not enough dimension to the drink. So I added some vanilla-flavored kefir for the fat from the kefir/yogurt-like drink. Plus the vanilla flavor and slight sour of the yogurt adds dimension. I added Brazil nuts because — well, heck — they’re rather healthy. Plus, they also added some weight and oil to the drink. Very nice end result. Light fruit flavor with the sweet pineapple and peaches, with layers of vanilla, sour and nuts (a smidge, just a smidge bitter).

June 26, 2009

Blueberry Peach Kefir Brazil Nut Borage + + + Smoothie

borage flowersBack from a long — and hot — day at the Smithsonian Folklife Festival, it was time for a smoothie. I had four people total to make it for, so volume was as important as taste. I mixed –

  • 2 c frozen peaches (frozen by me last year with citric acid and sugar to sweat them)
  • 1.5 c frozen blueberries
  • 1 orange, juiced
  • 4 Brazil nuts, soaked
  • 1/2 c of kefir, vanilla-flavored
  • 1 c of fruity-flavored tea
  • Some cran-pomnegranate juice (bottled sugar) just because I needed more liquid and a little more sweetness
  • Oh, and I added a borage flower (edible) as decoration

Vitamix. Variable, then on high. Served in pretty glasses. Nice. Refreshing. Still thick enough to eat with a spoon.

June 25, 2009

I gazed at him lovingly every day

michael jacksonWhen I was eight years old, I got my first-ever album. It was by The Jackson Five. Inside, there was a paper sleeve protecting the record. And on this sleeve was printed many fan items for purchase. The heart-shaped stickers with Michael Jackson’s photo in the center I pined for, day in and day out.

I would spend hours looking at the album and the fan items for purchase. It was too complex a process for my eight-year-old self to buy a sticker. And my parents wouldn’t have understood my desire, or thought it charming. This was another era: the beginning of the GenX era of childhood. Millennials, you’ll never understand in any meaningful way … and that’s ok.

My young tweenager’s heart would envision scenario upon scenario of how Michael and I would meet. How he would fall in love with me. And how he would choose me as his true love among all the other girls who loved him. I knew it was our destiny, and I spent much time seeing how it would happen.

I’ve grown up with his music. Watched him struggle. Do strange things. Always caring for him, even in his oddities. Even feeling sadness for his possible/probable pedophilia and how he wasn’t born that way, but made that way by … by who knows what combination of events/people/happenings.

And today, when hearing of his heart failure, my heart hurt for a moment. Deep. While I don’t know the circumstances or (possibly gory) details to emerge around his death, it felt right to me that his heart would give out. Has he known love? To give? To receive? To allow? To forgive? It seems logical and right that his heart would be weak in spirit and in soul.

The radio and twitter were my first feeds on the news, with twitter bringing links of the confirmed death. This evening, I turned on the TV to celebrate his life. Channel after channel of the same story. Lurid. Loving. Tragedy. Gossip. Up. Down. He was great. He was odd.

I already know all that.

I just wanted to listen to his music. Watch his videos. Marvel. Remember. And love him now, as I have always. As someone whose expression of self touched me inside and opened me up. These two videos are from his earlier days. I enjoyed watching them again tonight and share them that you might, too.

Ben

Rockin Robin

June 24, 2009

Cleanliness ain’t next to Godliness

kirby vacuumI’m prone to an occasional rant at God. I get mighty ticked sometimes. And usually it’s about the physical nature of this world and how much friggin maintenance is required just to live!

My most recent rageful rant was regarding my vacuum cleaner. I have a high-end vacuum cleaner. So, high-end that it managed to survive the complete dissolution of my house, all my furnishings and most of my possessions that I intentionally embarked upon about six years ago. My vacuum cleaner, a Kirby, and my Vitamix (my smoothie machine) survived the process, along with a few key pieces of art.

Anyway, a couple weeks back, my Kirby belt wasn’t engaged properly, meaning the vacuum cleaner wasn’t working properly. I’ve replaced it and fixed it before. But this time, no matter how I tried: no luck. I cursed not just the heavens — but Our Maker himself. And I mean cursed! The clean version sounded somethin like this –

Dude! Get a grip.

Do you have ANY idea of the burden of maintenance and living down here? No, I bet you don’t. You live in that Absolute World, where all is transparent and orderly and gentle. Oh, but to be here. Everything’s a chore. A task. I sweat and my body produces oil. I have to clean things: my body, my clothes. Dirt is tracked in the house. I have to vacuum. And not just once. Again and again and again.

I’m humbled. I’ll do it. I’ll do what’s required. I thank you for this experience and opportunity to be in physical form. I’ll take care of all the needs of my body, my home and my life. I’ll do it. But WTF is up with this vacuum belt?

DUDE! You didn’t give me the fix-it gene, and you know it! So, why these problems? Data. Complex thought. Chaos into order. Energy and trajectories. Deciphering. No problem. I’m on it. But you know I can’t problem-solve my way through physical/mechanical challenges. You know it. I am really not liking this experience!

So, tonight, after watching a YouTube video on how to replace my vacuum belt, and being certain that I’d be able to then fix this, I’m still in the same boat. Just not interested in telling God twice my frustration.

I’m sure He heard. (An owl just started whooo-ing outside my window.) All I know is I have tried to figure this out, even consulted expert sources, and my vacuum cleaner belt still hasn’t found its way into the right position. For now, I have to conclude that Cleaninless ain”t next to Godliness. If it is, I need a miracle.

Hear me?

June 23, 2009

Mango Peach Orange Banana Smoothie

peachesOK. This Mango Peach Orange Banana Smoothie was good. Nice blend of flavors. The color was pretty, as all the ingredients were yellow-peachy-orange-y colors. But, the weak point in this drink was the slight under-ripeness of the fruit: all of it – the banana, the peaches and the mango! Not surprisingly, the natural sugars of the fruits were less present. Shoulda added some honey. Oh, also, none of these fruits were frozen, so ice cubes were added. The ingredients –

  • 1 banana
  • 2 peaches
  • 1 mango
  • 1 orange, juiced
  • 6-7 ice cubes

Vitamix. On high. Next time: remember to add sugar or honey.

June 23, 2009

Localized pain.

Photo from AP.

Photo from AP.

News of the WMATA Red Line metro crash yesterday made me stop. I was headed out from the j-o-b when I heard the first bit about the crash. I needed to talk with people. To sit in a neighborhood bar. To be in the company of people who were local and cared, people who knew others connected to this situation. People who would see it/feel it as real and local news.

Now, this may seem like a “duh” statement to some. But I don’t pay attention much to news. Any of it. That’s another story for another day, but the short of it is that I discovered — for myself — a long time ago that news stories had the effect of making me care less, not more, about the barage of human tragedy stories.

red_line_metro crash photoBut this story I felt in a highly local way. I take the Red Line. Often. I’ve been on that line hundreds of times. And in my mind’s eye, I saw the interior image of a car, and the very normal people who ride it, and I imagined the wreck. And it made my heart feel real and open and loving and caring. I could see real people in an imagined picture.

I didn’t have a true neighborhood bar to go to, so I did the next-best thing and headed to the Dobbin Starbucks. I didn’t find my DC-oriented social media posse, whom I knew would be all over the news in the blogs, connecting with friends in DC via twitter, and basically plugged in real-time. But I did see a handful of people I knew, so I had a base of human contact. They weren’t interested so much in the crash, so I went home and watched some news and read some online content, mostly blogs reporting in real time.

I found the blogs, the stories, the small accounts of individual actions most compelling: the man who helped the young girl whose legs were crushed, or the person who gathered passengers’ T-shirts to make tourniquets to stave the blood flow from injured passengers. I found I was less interested in the WMATA director says … , and DC Mayor Fenty says … and WTOP reports … Important, yes. Critical, yes. But my curiosity was much with the people.

That’s what I can identify with the most. That’s where my heart and attention lay. That’s what I wanted to know. How are the people? How did they react? What did this call forth in them? Was their panic? What acts of heroics and courage were displayed? Were people selfish or helpful?

I was comforted by the stories I heard.

Feeling lost now. Not concluded on this whole story. The names of the dead have not been released yet. And while I don’t get any particular sense of foreboding, I can feel this piece of the story is important for my own closure and peace of mind.

June 22, 2009

Mango Blueberry Orange Kefir Smoothie

helios kefirI went out on a limb. Added some kefir, vanilla-flavored, to tonight’s smoothie. Here’s what I used –

  • 1 1/2 cups frozen blueberries
  • 1 orange, juiced
  • 1 mango
  • 1/2 c vanilla kefir

Blended it on high in my Vitamix. And there you have it. Good. The kefir changes it. Makes it meatier. More robust. I do like a pure fruit smoothie, but this was nice for a change of pace and shift in flavor not possible with just fruit.

June 21, 2009

They called me Martha.

martha stewartLast night, I found myself at the Baltimore Gay Pride street party. It was after a long day indoors at Baltimore Barcamp and a nice after-party at Brewer’s Art. My BFF and I, dressed alike, as we often find ourselves in some mysterious sort of way, were headed out of Baltimore and back to the ‘burbs on a Saturday evening when we saw the street party.

“Hey, let’s stop by. They’ve got a DJ and some dancing. Let’s check it out,” I offered. Adventurous and curious despite her Suburban veneer, my BFF said, “Yeah, let’s.” (Or something like that … I’m just condensing for story-telling sake.)

baltimore gay pride street festival pic by spike55151We got a most-excellent, if not on-the-edge-of-illegal, parking spot and headed on over. It was nice. Heavily Baltimore with its blue-collar roots and deep urban feel, but a sweet event in any case. I’m sure my BFF and I were causing our own degree of curiosity, with our matchy-matchy outfits, our big suburban handbags and our “They sure don’t look gay” vibe.

Several hours later, as we starting heading back to my car, a guy asked me, “Hey, are you going to dance in the street at the red light? Lots of people run out and dance before the stopped cars.”

Hah. Daughter of Eileen and Jim Newburn, dancers from the day they met til now, I said, “Sure,” and promptly headed out into the street.

I can’t say exactly what happened next. I only have my experience plus the story-telling of those who witnessed it, but apparently my  appearance in the street caused a rapid and mass convergence, wherein in I was in the center of the group, dancing with a young woman who beelined her way to me. We danced, she and I, with a charged group dancing and shouting around us.

As the light turned green and our insta-dance party broke up, I heard a lot of good-hearted laughter. And then I heard this: “She’s like Martha Stewart.” Then it echoed, and I kept hearing murmurs of “Martha.” Even “Hilary.”

There are times when I’m reminded of how suburban and middle-aged I am, and this was one of those moments. I like to think of myself how I feel: young, curious, a little cool/hip/chic. Alas, the Baltimore Gay Pride street dancers saw me in a different light: They called me Martha.


June 16, 2009

Worlds. Planets. Words.

worlds best dadOf late, this concept of worlds and planets has come up in my life. It is possible for there to 100,000 coffee mugs that say “World’s Best Dad,” but it would be inaccurate to say “The Planet’s Best Dad.” Ja? There are, in my view, an infinite number of worlds, as a world is a perspective with an individual at the center. But there is one Planet Earth. Hey, just a thought. From my world. Standing on, of all places, Planet Earth.

June 9, 2009

Twitter: Ask Y

genx twitterMy post, Twitter: It’s a GenX Thing, caused a stir and flurry of comments on this blog. (Translate that as anyone who wants to read me being bashed might like the initial post.) I’m involved in the conversation there and just went a layer deeper with this comment, below:

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I offer that any conversation about generations, twitter and any other social media is informed less by stats and more by WHY. Why is twitter popular now? Because someone created technology? A tool? Yet-another geeky thing? Hardly. Twitter, I believe, is popular because whatever gen is ascending into midlife (that’s GenX) has the most power and influence of and for the times. So GenX — back to my original position — orient toward GAPS. Why, cuz Boomers tend to take up space and squat on turf and not move over when the natural time for them to move on over occurs. GenX know this in the core of their souls. So rather than fight an entire generation of turf-squatters, we find gaps. The spaces not filled. The neglected areas. The opportunities that, cobbled together, bit by bit, make for magnificent change.

And, Twitter, is a most-excellent tool for filling small gaps. It’s SMALL. It’s specific. It provides no room for deep, prolonged naval gazing (sorry boomers, had to stick that one in). No room for deep, meaningful exploration of a subject. Function. Now. Reality. GenX. Gaps. Small spaces. Small opportunities.

Twitter: It’s a GenX Thing.

Hey, I’m right back at where I started. :-)

June 9, 2009

Gen Y: A graphic depiction

Sent to me by @annathema. Found it charming, in its own way.

Gen Y

Gen Y